Husband:
So as
you can probably guess my post today is about my Husband Brian Allen Berthon….
When
Brian came into my life it was a very dark time, I had just gotten out of a
relationship that was full of lies and cheats, I told God that I was done with
men and that I was done with relationships and done with ever finding true
love.
As most
people know Brian and I met online when he was over in Iraq fighting for our
freedom, now I grew up military and always had a special place in my heart for
anyone military, so I agreed to be Brian’s pen pale and boy that was the best
decision that I could have ever made in my life.
Brian
and I went on our first date to dinner and a movie and I remember sitting at
dinner thinking to myself, I never want this to end because he was so down to
earth and we literally talked for hours and have always been able to talk for
hours about anything. Step one to being in a healthy marriage is talk with your
spouse don’t yell and scream and see who can get louder but talk and look into
each other eyes and know that you are safe and tell them how you feel.
When Brian
proposed we had only been a couple for 6 weeks and everyone said that we were
crazy to be getting married in such a short time and that we would never make
it. Well when you know you have found the one then you just know God showed me
that not all Men are evil and there are still some men out there that are true
and honorable and I married one hell of a honorable man that stands up for his
family and works his butt off for our family and give me the opportunity to
stay home and raise our family and I will never ever take that for granted and
Thank him every day for the privilege that I have.
Over the
years Brian and I have been through many valleys and at time we looked at each
other and wondered how we would ever make it to see those mt. tops. Brian has
stood by my side through 6 surgeries in the 7 years that we have been married
and those valleys have been struggles but he was always right by my side when I
woke up but it is because of having each other to lean on that we are able to
make it through and will continue to make it through.
Brian
not only my HUSBAND, but he is my BEST FRIEND, the most amazing FATHER to our 3
girls, he is a MILITARY vet and THE LOVE
OF MY LIFE!!!!!
Brian I
love you so much honey and thank God for you every day that you are in my life
forever or at least till God comes back!!
